How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 01.07.2025 00:35

How does one succeed in life?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Procrastinates a lot.

Have you ever been forced to undress for money just once?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Ask yourself:

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Does not procrastinate.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Did Leonardo da Vinci paint two Mona Lisas? Where are they?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why do I want to suck cock, after smoking methamphetamine?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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What I need from you?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why is our generation so unhappy?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

That's it for today.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Hangs out with loser friends.